I was really hoping not to have to write this message but something told me that Monday’s news was premature. Today we found out that there are cancerous cells left in Dad’s bone marrow. I know that you are all as unhappy and as confused as I am (I’ve learned that there is nothing to gain from being mad). My understanding was that the tests were done. I even held off on writing until after the doctor spoke with Mom and Dad on Wednesday but I now understand that a more detailed test just came back this morning.
The plan is to do another bone marrow test on Monday to see if there is any change. There is also talk of doing a colonoscopy on Monday to try to determine what is causing the bleeding. Dad’s white blood cell count is still not coming up and we really need it to. One of the reasons may be an antibiotic that was being used to suppress the fevers.
So… We all need to stay extremely positive. Mom and Dad really appreciate all the letters, cards, pictures, etc so please keep sending them. I know that it’s really hard not to call but at this point it’s just so important that Dad rests that I have to ask for no phone calls. The best means of communication is mail to the house in Delaware, followed by email to me. I will be flying back out soon and I will continue to send as much information as I can.
Thank you again for your best wishes.
Lots of love,
Dina
Here’s Ben thinking positive thoughts for everyone.